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tisdag 9 januari 2018

Getting Over A Breakup: Friends To The Rescue

It is not easy to cope when a marriage or an important relationship ends. The whole world seems upside down and there is a lot of emotional trauma and unsettling feelings. It is also believed that it is tougher for women to get over a breakup than it is for a man. You must, however, remember that it is not the end of the world and the agony caused by a breakup is not insurmountable.



Lean On Your Friends

Friends often prove very helpful in making you feel better. We tend to feel lonely after a breakup and sharing our feeling with a close friend might ease the emotional burden. Hang out with friends; watch a TV show or a movie and it will work wonders. Don’t stop your tears in front of an understanding and patient friend as it is the best way to let go of the emotional burden and pain.

Your friends are aware of your personality and understand what you are going through. So true friends will always stick close to you in this terrible time and also help you get out of it as they know what will make you happy.

Sometimes you blame yourselves for whatever has happened and suffer from immense guilt. A true friend will never let you fall into that trap and will make you realize that whatever happened was not your fault.

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Getting Over A Breakup: Friends To The Rescue

Take Up New Interests

When you are in a relationship you tend to lose your social circle, so now it is the right time to get it back. You must catch up with old friends and make an effort to reach out to new people. This will make you emotionally more secure and boost your courage. You can also join a dance class or any activity class with a friend who shares your interest as it will prove to be helpful in keeping you busy and your mind will drift from the painful memory of your ex.

Grow and Learn

At the time of this emotional crisis you should search for an opportunity to grow and learn. A vacation with friends is another great idea, as it will temporarily take you away from the things that will remind you of your partner. Besides this, a vacation is always rejuvenating for your mind and soul.

Gain Back Your Confidence

It is very hard for us to deal with breakup and we also tend to find faults with ourselves and tend to suffer from inferiority complex. Some of us might think that they are unattractive and this may be a reason their partner has dumped them. Sharing complexes with friends is very important because they know your inner beauty and will make you feel beautiful by their words and actions. At the same time if you neglected yourself and your fitness, now is the best time to bounce back. Hitting a gym with a best friend will make you look wonderful and bring back the confidence in you.

Do not let the breakup shatter the real you. Instead try your best and take help from family and friends, who help you get over turbulent times with their warmth and love.

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fredag 5 januari 2018

Handle Your Relationship with Love and Care

It is very unusual for a couple to never have conflicts or disagreements. However, the way to solving a problem in your relationship is to understand the problem beforehand and try to prevent it from happening at all.



If you want to have a successful marriage or relationship and keep your lovelife going, you need to understand your partner from another perspective. Below is a list of the main relationship issues that many couples go through.

Communication

Whether you know it or not, the root cause of many broken relationships is simply a lack of communication. Communication with your loved one doesn't need to be a dreaded task, sometimes just sprinkling a little bit of love on him/her is a good thing.

Maybe they have come back from a hard day’s work or a bad day even. When it is like this, only you can help take away all the pain and give your loved one the love they need and deserve. Sometimes the communication gap has been there for so long it can be difficult trying to break the ice. If you are in a situation like this, it may help to try one or more of the following suggestions:

Set a date to go out with your loved one. Ask them what suits them best, and book a table at their favorite restaurant. You could even spend time at home and just have a really healthy talk. But if you do not set a specific time and date, your special evening may never happen.

If you live together, try to limit your TV watching time. Generally, if you're focused on watching a TV show, you're not focused on bonding with your partner.

Turn your phones off or set them to vibrate mode so nothing interrupts the time you're spending together.

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Handle Your Relationship with Love and Care 

If you have kids, you should probably wait until after you put them to bed or maybe send them over to a friend's house or ask a relative to watch them for you.

If you think your conversation could escalate to a fight or raised voices, it may be better to choose a public location like a restaurant, where there is less chance that anyone will create a scene. That way, you can easily talk things out in a quiet manner, and that can lead to a healthy conversation.

Always make sure when your partner is talking that you let them talk without interrupting. If this happens often in your relationship then maybe it is time for you to lay some rules down and change things.

When your partner is talking and you are having a healthy discussion, do not fidget because this only shows that you are not at all interested. Your body language should show your partner that you are truly interested in what he/she is saying.


Tips to solve problems

Be truthful about everything that is going on with you. Two people want to be together because they think they can be truthful and trust one another. Be very careful about breaking your loved one's trust because once broken it is very difficult to regain.

Sometimes money or financial issues is the main cause of conflict in your relationship. You probably share bills and expenditures with each other and something may have happened that has caused it to become a problem. It doesn't have to be a bad thing to share your money with your partner.


Try being there for one another; love is not just about being there only in the good times, but also in the bad. Love takes away all pain, just show some love wherever necessary and your relationship will bloom like a beautiful, healthy flower.

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tisdag 2 januari 2018

Is it Really Wise to Dive Back Into a Relationship with Your Ex?

The idea of getting back together with your ex probably seems like the perfect solution to your present state of heart and mind. The breakup is the root of all your problems and your pain at the moment. You believe that making up will be the perfect answer. It might even solve some of your problems by relieving your pain to the point where you can think  clearly. However, if you had waited that long before making up, what would those clearer thoughts have revealed about the breakup to begin with? Is getting back together with your ex really in your best interest? Consider these questions to help you decide.



Have You Grown from the Experience?

Not just the breakup. Have you grown from the relationship? How has loving your ex changed you for the better? For worse? Where do you want to go, on a personal level, from here? Is it somewhere your ex will be able to go with you? How have your dreams and plans for the future changed as a result of your relationship with your ex? Do you still have dreams you're working to achieve? Or, have you given them all up for the sake of practicality and expedience? What have you accomplished since becoming involved with your ex? Do you feel like you're a better person because you knew your ex?

Are Your Prepared to Put the Past Behind You?

The problems in your relationship don't go away just because you broke up and got back together. Wouldn't it be nice if it did work that way though! The truth is that the old baggage is waiting at the same door one of you stomped out of when the you-know-what hit the fan. If you don't resolve the issues that tore the two of you apart to begin with, they're going to cause problems again unless you've decided that you can really put them behind the two of you and move forward.

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 Is it Really Wise to Dive Back Into a Relationship with Your Ex?

What Kinds of Changes are You Willing to Make to Make it Work?

Lasting relationships require work. It's as simple as that. You can't share a home and lead two separate lives. You can't go your separate ways and meet up when things are lonely or a little less hectic. You have to make time for each other and you have to do things together. More importantly, though, for the sake of saving your relationship, you both have to change in ways that bring you together rather than divide you.

If you're not willing to put the past behind you, make necessary changes, and aren't sure you've really grown from your time together, then why on earth are you fighting like mad to save the relationship? If you have positive answers to all these questions, then you'll need to follow a well-conceived plan of attack to get your ex to pay attention and really give you, and your relationship, a second chance.

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